One of the most common questions I get as a DFW wedding photographer is: “Should we do a first look?”
Honestly? The short answer is: it’s totally up to you.

The long answer... well, it’s a little more complicated (lol). Every couple is different, and what’s most important is figuring out your priorities for your wedding day.

WHY SOME COUPLES CHOOSE TO DO A FIRST LOOK
A first look is when the bride and groom see each other before the ceremony — usually in a quiet, private moment — and it’s one of the most emotional parts of the day.

Many couples love doing a first look because:
- It helps calm nerves before the ceremony.
- You get to spend more of the day together.
- You can start celebrating with guests sooner since you’ll take most photos beforehand.

From a photographer’s perspective, doing a first look also allows for a smoother, less rushed timeline. You can knock out a ton of photos early — wedding party portraits, family shots, and couple photos — without feeling crunched for time after the ceremony.

WHY SOME COUPLES CHOOSE TO NOT DO A FIRST LOOK
On the other hand, some couples feel strongly about waiting to see each other until the aisle moment — and that’s totally valid.

Maybe you’ve always dreamed of that dramatic reveal as you walk toward each other for the first time. Maybe you want to keep things traditional. Whatever the reason, it’s your day — and it should feel like you.

When couples skip the first look, we simply adjust the photography timeline a bit. I’ll capture as many photos as possible before the ceremony (like bridal party and individual portraits) and then finish up the rest during cocktail hour or right after the ceremony.

MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH A FIRST LOOK
When I got married, I completely understood the fear of “losing” that genuine reaction. I wanted my husband to have that wow moment when I walked down the aisle… but I also really didn’t want to spend half the reception taking photos.

So — we did a first look.

And y’all… he cried like a baby. 🥹

That quiet moment, just the two of us, before everything started — it was intimate and grounding. We got to pray together, talk about the excitement ahead, and really take it all in.

And when I still walked down the aisle? He cried again.

So if you’re worried about missing that genuine reaction, trust me — it’ll still happen.

FIRST LOOK ALTERNATIVES
If you love the idea of a first look but don’t want to actually see each other before the ceremony, here are some sweet alternatives:

- First Touch: Stand on opposite sides of a door or wall and hold hands without looking. You can exchange letters, pray together, or just share a quiet moment.
- Blindfolded First Look: One partner wears a blindfold, so you can hug, talk, or share a kiss without seeing each other yet.

Both of these options give you that beautiful, private moment while keeping the tradition of the aisle reveal intact.

FINAL THOUGHTS
Whether you choose to do a first look or not, your wedding will be amazing and completely you.

As your Texas wedding photographer, my goal is to capture the emotion and story behind every moment — from the quiet anticipation before you see each other to the overwhelming joy of “I do.”

So don’t stress about the “right” choice. There isn’t one.
There’s just your choice — and that’s always perfect. 💕

Want help building a photography-friendly wedding timeline?
Contact me here and let’s plan your dream day together.